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Confidence and/or Tolerance?

So here's an illogical story from an illogical girl πŸ˜… ! So let's get started with the story!
Once , a frog said that he wants to climb up a long tree and he was confident about his decision . And the other frogs said ,"Frogs can never climb up a tree , you dumbo!" , "You aren't a monkey!"πŸ˜‚ and other things which were true . How can frogs climb up a tree? It is never possible for a frog to climb up a tree and it's senseless to even think about a frog climbing a treeπŸ˜‘πŸ˜…! But here's the plot twist! When the other frogs were talking and gossiping and complaining about this barmy frog , the frog reached the top! HOW? "Well , maybe science was wrong , frogs can climb up too" - is this your thought? No , you are absolutely wrong! The truth is that the frog was DEAF! So does this mean that deaf peoples and animals can climb up a tree? πŸ˜… No , you silly people!
Lemme explain you! See , when these people were complaining and giving him negative comments on his stupid idea of climbing the tree , he was unable to hear them. This means he didn't hear any feedback from his friends and family ; what he did was , followed his own wish without listening to any other frog and kept his focus just on the top of the tree! He was confident , no doubt! But can only confidence make you succeed? For example , if you want to start a business , you should be confident , I agree! But what if the people around you give you negative comments and start the old-fashioned stereotype dialogues like "It's impossible and illogical , dear . Think something which you can do!" Now , what will you do? You will obviously feel a little insecure. πŸ™„ You're 99.9% confident but what about the 0.1% fear in your mind which tells you "You can't do it! Think of something which is in your capability!" Now this fear will grow inside of you and will gradually become 10% , 30% and soon 100%. 😐 So then , what?
Let's get back to the story now. See , now you know the mystery behind the frog doing something senseless and unusual , still he succeeded! Can you get my point here , guys? Confidence is good but BE DEAF! I am not telling you people to go and damage your ears physicallyπŸ™ƒ , but learn to TOLERATE! Tolerate what others say about you , tolerate their judgemental looks on you , tolerate their views on you! In short , you are the master of your own life , right? How come people have the rights to judge you, then? Don't give them this permission to hurt you or judge you! Just focus on what you want! If a frog can climb up a tree , you can do what you want too! It's okay if what you want to do is unusual , the people who did unusual succeeded too! Listen to your heart , not those people around you who wants you to do something usual and of your capability! 
Confidence is good , but only confidence will take you to success? According to my thinking , confidence and tolerance , both are equally important to do anything in life. I am not telling you philosophical things here , but stating the facts which I find true. Be confident , be deaf , focus and you are all set to chase your dreams! ✨ You people are agreeing , right? Just think about it! I wish you good luck! πŸ’œ Thanks if you read this long blog of mine! 
Fighting!!!❤️

Comments

Aagna Thakkar said…
I totally agree with youπŸ‘πŸ»
Mitsu✨ said…
Completely Agreeing with you!..
Dhanshree⁷ said…
I feel grateful , thank you! ✨

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