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Let success be the identity

Hey there , humans!!!😁
So , my mind is like a damaged bulb - sometimes it lits up and sometimes its dim. So yeah, my brain gets ideas few times but its fuse goes off at many times 😅 And yes , I know that I need consistency in writing which i lack a lot but atleast I do write ; unlike you people who just yawn at my blogs and forget the things I write in no time after reading ;) But let's not get to that point , otherwise I can write a whole novel on my lazy dear readers!😂 Just kidding , atleast you people do read my blogs and that shows more than enough support 。◕‿◕。
Let's get to the point for today! Let me ask you a riddle - 'What's the thing which is only yours , yet is majorly used by others?' Think. Okay , now stop. The answer is your name! Easy , right? Your name is yours but always used by others! How? Because your friends and family call you by your name. The riddle isn't that good but not that bad either ; actually it's related to today's topic. So read carefully. 
Once in one of my lower classes , a teacher of mine pointed at me to read the page of a particular chapter. And she addressed me as Burger ; quite funny , I know. Maybe she found my surname kind of rhyming to Burger but I corrected her by letting her know my real surname. And her reply was 'Ya I know it's ___ , but I kind of like burgers and pizzas more so I'll call you burger.' Ofcourse , as you may have guessed it , her intention was not of hurting me but just entertaining the class and herself. But I actually never found it funny yet I didn't argue further with her. I was really small and tiny little girl then to understand much.
But when I think about it now , what I do understand is , name matters , yes , it does. But you know what? You , yourself , your deeds , your things - matter more. I don't care that much about people screwing up my name or something , 'cause I can simply show myself , express myself in the near future. Let my own deeds prove myself as a better person. Since then , I understood that name is just a quantitative concept , your deeds and success is the qualitative one. Once you have it all , once you're strong and bold , once you're successful ; no one will ever need to learn your name. Your name will be on everyone's tongue then. (Sorry , i didn't mean to write these type of movie dialogue sort of things ^^;;) 
(Disclaimer : Obviously, no hate to the teacher , I liked her a lot and still does. It was just her way to joke around , so - NO OFFENCE!)
The incident happened with me then was actually something which wasn't anything serious or meant to be a negative statement , but needless to say , my overthinker mind had to think about this incident a lot. So , I wrote this blog. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
What I mean is , your name is important , yes , but let your success be your identity. 
Here is the link of the people who were really successful despite of their name being a bit uncommon. Click here
(Just letting you know , I have not been sponsored. I actually liked that article a lot so thought of sharing. And anyways , no one ever sponsors me. @_@ lol)
Well then , that's all for the day. 
Thank you for reading as always! ✨
Fighting!!! ❤️


Comments

Srija Das said…
Amazing thoughts!!
Like your consistency in writing. Continue to share more
Dhanshree⁷ said…
Hey there! Glad you liked , thanks! :))))) @Srija Das

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